Hello Reader,
How are you doing? I'm good! Wow, it's almost the end of the month! Today is a special day. Today is the day that my book will be going to the typesetter. So I've got to make any final changes today, before handing over! ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ And today I've also launched a new Newsletter and I have been so surprised about how many people what to hear my thoughts on AI and visible leadership, there are 307 subscribers! Wow, that's just incredible!
The search for venue for my Book launch goes on, however, I know that the venue that is secured will be brilliant. So I can't wait to announce the venue of book launch. Expect there to be insights on paid speaking, joy, music and some surprises. If you're based outside of the UK would you like to be involved in the book launch event? Let me know, the book launch will be filmed so a highlights reel will come out. I'd love to know if you've seen or heard of any great ideas to involve your international community in your book launch. Hit Reply with Book Intl with your thoughts.
Yesterday I was gripped by watching an interview with Bozoma Saint John. My mantra is "Be Your No.1 Cheerleader". She trail blazes in this area and such a force, you either feel you love her, hate her, or perhaps you may be envious of her confidence. You can check out the interview: HERE ๐ฅ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐ฅ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐ฅ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐ฅ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐ฅ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐ฅ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐ฅ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐ฅ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐ฅ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐ฅ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐ฅ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐
What I am learning is that to achieve results you've never had, you've to do things differently. You have to feel the fear and do it anyway!
And now to the title of the email: Do you like standing under your own spotlight?
I feel like, I should quote Jennifer Hudson, and her song Spotlight. โ
Well I don't like
Living under your spotlight
Just because you think I might
Find somebody worthy
Oh I don't like
Living under your spotlight
Maybe if you treat me right
You won't have to worry
Jennifer Hudson, Spotlight
Now the song is about a possessive and bad boyfriend. Now surprises about what I'm going to say next!
Sometimes we treat ourselves like a "bad boyfriend" or "girl friend". We live under our own "negative spotlight".
Yes, that's deep! But then it's true. We as humans have an inbuilt negativity bias. To protect us. Sometimes we can take it too far and let become "our mindset", our "beliefs" and "who we think we are".
Now, thankfully we don't have to live like that. Under the "negative spotlight". But first we have got to be honest with ourselves.
"What have been giving light to under negative spotlight that we need to stop"?
Examples would be:
Not fact checking your own beliefs
Not asking questions about our feelings- Because feelings aren't Facts
Just believing that you can't do something without even trying
Not starting something because of your judgement on starting sooner
And the list could go on.
So if we were to give you a new sound track it would be this one from Burna Boy, "Born Winner".โ
You are born to be great, self talk matters
Eternal talk with eternal significance is very important
Never say to yourself, "I am confused, I am a loser," no
But say to yourself what God says about you
You are not born to fail
You are not born to lose
You are not born to be insignificant
You are born to win
So what kind of spotlight have you put yourself under? Is helpful or is it harmful?
How are you feeling?
Welcome to July, it's almost over! What are focussed on to close out this month? ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ
It's time to be intentional and to do the work and set yourself up for a joyful December!
A wise man said," Begin with the end in mind" - Stephen Coveyโ
What is your end?
For me it's:
Having my programme launched and filled with the right people - Still in progress!
Launching my book - Still in progress! (Save the 18th September!) ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ
My Speaker Showcase is Now complete! โ
When something distracts you - Think about - Does this help me or harm me?
When I wake up on 31st Dec, will I have achieved my goals and played Full Out?
Now for today's Business Reflection:
Today, I'm reflecting self love, self validation, self empowerment. You are what you think! What are you thinking? The validation you are seeking comes from You. Yes, I know it's deep. No-one can give it you. You have to create it. You can borrow belief to start with. But then you need to create in order to become it. โค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ฅฐ
๐ก 3 Reasons to Self Validate
1๏ธโฃ You have the opportunity to decide You are a Big Deal! Because You are!
2๏ธโฃ You have the opportunity to see you as other see you, the change maker, the expert, the coach, the mentor insert your own .
3๏ธโฃ You have the opportunity to step into your greatness. Your unique imprint on this earth is something only you can design. Design it with intention.
Here's my positioning statement: I help leaders get paid to speak by leveraging LinkedIn. ๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค
Do you think More Free gigs will get you to be a Paid Speaker?
More Free Gigs Wonโt Make You a Paid Speaker ๐ค๐ฃ๐ค๐ฃ
Speaking for free over and over, hoping it โleads to something,โ isnโt a strategy, itโs a cycle.
Leaders know their value. Speakers take what they can get. Paid Speakers make their value undeniable. ๐๐๐
Which one are you acting like?
Youโre doing all the right things, or so you think.
๐ค Youโre booking more stages.
๐ค Youโre delivering great talks.
๐ค Youโre hoping this one leads to a paid opportunity.
But hereโs the truth: More gigs wonโt fix a Speaker Mindset.
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Leaders position themselves as experts.
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Speakers chase opportunities.
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Paid Speakers attract them.
If youโre stuck in the Speaker Mindset, youโll always be chasing. The solution? Shift how you position, package, and price yourself. ๐ฃ๐ฃ๐ฃ๐ฃ
Thatโs exactly what we do in the Paid Speaker Audit, a deep dive into whatโs keeping you stuck and how to fix it.
Check out what Anette thought of my FREE Mini Paid Speaker Audit.๐๐
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There are 1 FREE Mini Paid Speaker Audits left, when they are gone, they are gone!
The next stage isnโt the answer, your positioning is. Letโs fix it. ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ
5 Pieces of content you need to see:
1 Why is Visibility in your Career a Multiplier: HEREโ
2 The LinkedIn Cheerleader Success Lab is back! : HERE โ
3 Perfection isn't allowed in this space : HERE โ
4 Dear Speaker Borrow my Belief Today: HERE โ
5 Leading with AI Why leading with empathy is still your greatest asset: HERE โ
Join us for the: ๐ฃ๐น๐ฎ๐๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐บ ๐ฃ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฆ๐ฝ๐ผ๐๐น๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐: ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฉ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐
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๐ Save the dates:
๐ฐ ๐๐๐ด๐๐๐ โ Sandraโs spotlight + ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐ฆ ๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฃ๐ณ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ Register: HEREโ
So nowโs the time to ๐ป๐ผ๐บ๐ถ๐ป๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐น๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ป ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐น๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐:
Nominate a Visible Leader: HERE โ
Book Corner ๐
Today, I'm sharing that date has been set for the book launch and you're invited! Save 18th September sign up: HERE ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ And it's almost time for my book to hit the printing press! ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ
Want to be a Beta Reader? (This version of the book is 88 pages.)
Beta Reader, please complete this form: HERE I'll send you a draft of the book and I'd love for you to give me an early review! ๐๐คฉ๐๐๐คฉ๐๐๐คฉ๐๐๐คฉ๐๐
Order your pre-order Book : HERE ๐๐๐๐
๐คฉ Exciting Updates:
๐ค Paid Speaker Connections is taking a break for Summer! Instead, we're doing something extra special and having a celebration of the Visible Leader Summer Showcase, with a special community celebration event. Dates for your diaries:
Dates: ๐
๐ฐ ๐๐๐ด๐๐๐ โ Sandraโs spotlight + ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐ฆ ๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฃ๐ณ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ Register: HEREโ
Watch my Visible Leadership Talk on YouTube: HERE โ
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โจ PLUS: Nominations open for our new ๐ฉ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฆ๐ต๐ผ๐๐๐ผ๐๐๐ a light-touch way to honour those quietly making BIG waves. Open for global nominations! (Yes, you can nominate yourself! ๐ฅฐ)
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โSubmit your nominations here: https://lnkd.in/eFMxHUr8โ
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Gratitude Corner โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ
3 reasons to practice gratitude:
- 1: It gives you the opportunity to see what you already have!
- 2: It gives you the opportunity to be grateful for who is already here!
- 3: It gives you the opportunity to be your best self!
Want More Wins? ๐๐๐
If youโre ready to optimize your profile, or become a Paid Speaker, create inbound leads, and confidently sell on LinkedIn, hit reply with โReadyโ and letโs make 2025 your best year yet! ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ
Interested in having me speak or provide LinkedIn training? ๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฏ
If youโre looking to bring me in as a speaker, offer LinkedIn training at your workplace, feature me as a guest expert in your business group, or have an amazing stage in mind, check out my Speaking Page. (Now updated!)
Be Bold, Be Brave, Back Yourself and Be Your No.1 Cheerleader! ๐๐๐พ๐ฅ๐
Have a wonderful day ahead.
You've Got This!
Warm regards,
Ekua ๐
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